How to know if a girl likes you

You aren’t sure if a guy likes you because:

1. He’s shy
2. He looked at you at the mall
3. Your man hasn’t talk to you in a while 
4. You are getting mixed signals

You don’t know if he still wants you and it’s driving you crazy. But now you’ll learn how to tell if he likes you by studying his actions and his body language which are the only 2 things you can truly rely on:

He makes you laugh

Even if your guy ignores you every once in a while, but makes you laugh, you can be quite sure that he likes you.

Studies show that guys like to make girls laugh at their jokes and girls like guys that can make them laugh. 

So even if your man is playing hard to get, but you notice that he’s cracking some good jokes around you, you can be pretty sure that he likes you.

On the other hand, if he seems bored around you with no motivation to crack any jokes, there is a problem in your relationship. 

He tells you how much he likes you 

Obviously, if her told you “I love you” you wouldn’t have any doubts, but there are many ways for a guy to tell a girl how much he likes her, for example:

1. He’ll text you a nice compliment (no guy compliments a girl that he doesn’t like)
2. He’ll tell you how much he likes spending time with you
3. He’ll tell you directly with a kiss!
4. He’ll tell you why you are so adorable (e.g. I love you because I can’t get over your cuteness)
5. He’ll give you sexual compliments (e.g. Your sexy, red dress is working wonders on me!)

And by the way, guys like to send mixed signals because it makes their girls wonder if their man even likes them. It’s a teasing technique and most girls love it.

He’s looks happy when he sees you

You can’t rely on what a guy tells you. You can’t trust any text you receive. But you can always trust your man’s body language. 

Here’s what I mean:

1. He smiles when he sees you (a real smile, not a fake smile. It’s easy to tell the difference)
2. He maintains eye contact
3. He gives you hugs often
4. He seems a little unsure of himself while talking to you (every guy gets scared when he’s talking to a cute girl he likes)
5. He maintains an “open body” and does not appear “closed up” (e.g. open shoulders, wide stance, showing the palms of his hands, not crossing his legs, etc.)

But why is body language more reliable than anything else? 

Because body language is too much for your conscious mind to dictate so it is controlled by your subconscious mind at an emotional level which means it cannot be faked or manipulated.

If he genuinely smiles when he sees you, he really means it!

He touches you

If a guy loves you, he will try to be intimate with you. He will do everything he can to:

1. Caress you
2. Hold your hand
3. Play with your hair
4. Kiss you 
5. Play with your ears

If he really likes you he’ll try to give you a piggyback ride! And if you want to make him happy, just accept his offer and have fun on his shoulders on your way home.

He teases you

The last sign that you’ll always see is your man teasing you. Here are some examples:

1. He pushes you around playfully
2. He makes jokes about the way you look
3. He laugh about your moods
4. He “shushes” you playfully

The point is that he plays with your ego in a playful way. Just play along with him and make sure to tease him back!

Summary

What if you still aren’t sure if he really enjoys being with you? What do you do if you aren’t seeing any of these signs? 

You have 2 options:

1. Do everything you can to fix your relationship
2. Find someone better

You need to make this decision for yourself and trust your own judgement. If you feel like he’s not worth your time and effort, leave him.

If you think there’s a lot of good potential and you can make it work, then talk to him and make it happen.